THE BLOG

4 Ways to Lose a Woman’s Tenderness

With comments like “you’ve become so hard” and “I don’t recognize you anymore,” the couples I see for counseling invariably seek the formula to bring back this elusive ingredient but few realize they were partly responsible for its demise.

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The Martial Art of Relationships

The Tenets of the martial art,Tae Kwon-Do are very closely aligned to the relationship Allies proposed in the book “Wanted: How to Create a Relationship that Really Works”.

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Can a Relationship Survive Infidelity?

It’s one of the most common reasons couples seek counselling: betrayal. In spite of our intuition nudging us when our partner is behaving strangely and might be straying, the shock of discovering them cheating is usually as traumatic as it is brutal and can be near impossible to recover from.

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9 Grounding Questions for Your Relationship Audit

You won’t be surprised to hear of the pressures placed on your relationships by today’s faster pace. Add to that the myriad expectations for you to be a partner, provider, lover, nurturer, parent, friend and so on and it can become tough to remain a centred adult. Sometimes it seems the better option is to…

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8 Steps to Improve Your Relationship Listening Skills

Probably the greatest enduring gift you can give your partner is communication –  listening by hearing and understanding their views, feelings, expectations and challenges. Lack of or poor communication is also a top cause for divorce. The problem is, most of us are pretty lousy at communicating.  Especially in a reciprocal manner, which includes listening…

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